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Solo Summers
Challenges Facing the Single Parent
By Heather V. Long
"During the summer, I got off work at 5 p.m. every day," says Mary Lane Cryns of Mountain View, Calif., and mother of three. "Right after work, I'd pick my daughter Megan up from either her school or summer day camp program, we'd dash home and grab our swimsuits. Then we'd drive to either Lake Success or the Tule River and swim for at least an hour."
"Remember that your child's age is your only guide to summer plans," says Klungness. "Some 12-year-olds might be ready for sleep away camp, some are not. Some 8-year-olds are ready for a full day away camp and some are not. You have to know [the] maturity and interest of your children."
Lazy days spent swimming and bonding with family can create some wonderful memories for the future. It's a time not only to just enjoy the beautiful weather, but also to relax and enjoy each other. "Just because summer is an outdoor time, your 'bookwormish' son may be more interested in books and music than a four-week soccer camp," says Klungness. "Check out the local library. They may have summer programs that your child might enjoy."
Single parents who feel like they are the only ones in worrisome circumstances should look for other parents living close by and see if pooling resources is an option. Not only should they try to reach out to other single parents, but also any other parents they know, including stay-at-home moms and dads. They might want to barter for swapping time so that everyone's kids can benefit. "Every parent, no matter their circumstances, has a 'what are we going to do this summer with the kid?' [discussion]," says Klungness. "These same kind of discussions go on with most parents for their kids for the summer."
