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The Big Move
Moving With Kids Does Not Have to Be a Struggle
Moving into a new home brings with it a lot of emotions, particularly for families moving with children. Excitement and enthusiasm are coupled with anxiety and apprehension as to whether the kids will take to the new home and neighborhood. Carefully preparing children for the move, both practically and psychologically, will help ease the transition and make the process smoother and more enjoyable for the entire family.
The professionals at Coldwell Banker have been helping families move for nearly 100 years and offer the following advice on how to make sure kids of all ages cope with the home-buying process and the big move.
Finding a New Home
- Communicate. Maintain an open dialogue with children about the decision to move to a new house. Engaging them at the beginning of the process will give them time to get used to the idea and ultimately accept the change. Explain the reasons behind the move, and answer questions truthfully. However, early discussion does not mean it is necessary to haul them to every single home being considered, especially very young children. Once the choices have been narrowed down to perhaps two or three, bring them to the homes so they can begin to feel familiar with new surroundings.
- Listen. Listening to what children are saying about the move is just as important as talking to them about it. By paying close attention to their statements and reactions, parents can alleviate any fears. This is especially important for school-age children and teenagers who may be reluctant to leave their friends and classmates. Avoid being dismissive of their social concerns; acknowledge them and remind them about the new opportunities that await them. Focusing on the positives of the move may help settle down anxious children.
- Explore. After deciding on a new home, a real estate sales associate can help a family discover their new neighborhood. He or she can point out the playgrounds, community centers, recreation areas and other areas important to the kids and help make the environment seem more familiar. Coldwell Banker customers can use their local Coldwell Banker Concierge Service Program for assistance in finding activities for children.
