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Grow Slow

Clothes Should Promote Playing on Monkey Bars, Not Monkey Business

Research shows a link between a student's appearance and teachers' expectations, as well as a correlation between how students dress and their behavior. Too many school administrators are forced to spend time as "fashion police," when school is for learning. School is serious business, and students must dress for "the job."

"Ivy League Chic" features comfortable classics. The Britney Spears effect is pass笠The move toward modesty and instilling confidence and pride in young people requires a classy, proud reflection of style on the outside.

Extreme clothing and dressing styles must not disrupt a learning environment. Dress codes help schools provide an atmosphere where students can concentrate on the task at hand rather than the trend another student is wearing.

Avoid closet casualties that affect children's classroom performance by shopping smart. Here are some tips from Healthtex and the National PTA:

• Share the rules. Establish clear rules regarding what your child can and cannot wear.
• Know the code. Know your child's school dress code policy and explain it thoroughly to your child.
• Provide positive reinforcement. Point out choices that are acceptable for school.
• Let loose. Fashion is fun and includes lots of choices. Show your child there is more than one look. Allow your child to be creative without overstepping boundaries.
• Lobby for hobbies. Art, music, sports, academic achievement and personality are other ways for children to express creativity besides clothing. Support your child's hobbies and interests so they understand looks are just an outer layer for a person's true "cool factor," found on the inside.
• Browse online, not in store. Consider shopping online. It's a great way to put together outfits while avoiding the skin-trend stores.

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