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"D" Is for Dad
14 Ways Fathers Can Help Their Kids Excel in School By Donna Smith
11. It's OK if you can't answer a particular question. It shows your child that no one has "all the answers" but that it's possible to find them. Help her find the answer. Go to the encyclopedia or get online and, together, seek out the answer.
12. If your child isn't meeting your academic standards, let him know that you expect him to do better on future assignments. Just don't turn homework into a war zone. When you rely on positive encouragement rather than threats or punishment, he will try to meet your expectations.
13. If special tutoring is necessary, don't make your child feel ashamed. And don't make her forgo other commitments such as sports activities or dance lessons. Remember that her self-acceptance is far more important than her success in school. If she's truly doing her best, it's OK if she doesn't get straight A's.
14. Keep reading to your child even after he learns how. This may be especially critical for boys, who tend not to do as well in reading. When your son sees you reading books and magazines, he gets the message that reading is enjoyable and "manly."
"My career requires that I still read on a regular basis, so my children are used to seeing Dad reading," says Franco. "I do wish I read more for enjoyment, but at least I try not to complain about the reading I do."
"When children have the support of both parents, they take school more seriously,"Poulter says. "Even a few small efforts can make a big difference in your child's future. And you will probably surprise yourself by enjoying the time you share."
