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Words That Hurt
Dealing With Teasers and Bullies By Tamara Reyes-Muralles
For many parents of young children with special needs, the subject of teasing can be a very sensitive issue. They know and accept that it might happen to their child; however, they may not know how often it will happen or what form it will take. 
Parents often wonder if their children will be called names, laughed at or have jokes played on them. It's not only the possibility of teasing that is frightening, but also whether or not they have the ability to help their child deal with it.
Generally, children tease because they lack self-esteem, and teasing someone makes them feel superior. Children may tease to amuse their friends and to make them laugh. Many times, a bully will tease only when his or her friends are around.
Usually the person who gets teased is different in some aspect: He or she wears different clothes than everyone else, has a birth defect, may be poor, stutters, appears shy or lacks confidence.
- Depending on your child's age and how she feels, the teacher or you can give a presentation about your child's special needs. Many people feel if a presentation is given, the child's classmates are less likely to tease because they are informed. It gives the classmates a chance to ask all the questions they want and to express their curiosity or fears about what they don't know about the subject.
