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I Want Privacy!
An Expert Shares Her Thoughts on Kids and Privacy
By Elizabeth Pantley
What's really happening? Explore the reasons your child is wanting more privacy. Is this just normal development, or does he have something he's trying to hide? Most likely, if the reason is the latter, his behavior will appear secretive in other ways, too. He may make whispered phone calls, or answer questions about what he's up to in vague, disjointed ways. If so, try to get information by asking direct questions. Maybe he's planning a surprise, or spending time reading a book such as, "What's Happening to My Body." It's also possible that your child has discovered masturbation. If you talk with your child and aren't satisfied with the answers you get, it's time to talk to a family counselor or other professional.
Special Note:
If your child is spending excessive time alone, or is displaying other unusual behaviors, such as constant moodiness, anger or secretiveness, please talk to a family counselor about your concernsPages: 1 2