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Back to School Blues?

Can Mama Get Her Groove Back?

By Linda Sharp

A. Stained sweatpants, baggy T-shirt and worn out Keds. I'm only buying toilet paper, juice boxes and Odor Eaters at Wal-Mart.
B. As I stretch into "Downward Dog," I am unrestricted in my Nuala by Christi Turlington workout attire. What else would I wear to yoga class?
C. Nothing. I surprised my husband at work and whisked him away to a No-tel Motel for some afternoon delight. A. Balance? Ha! On the balance beam of life, I just pray the floor is padded every time I fall off!
B. Yes, my sanity is slightly restored. I am also calmer at the end of the day. (However, that could be the Prozac talking.)
C. I juggle all my roles so easily, I should get a job with the Cirque du Soleil! Mostly A's
Girlfriend, you need to look in the mirror and tell the person staring back, "I Deserve a life, too!" Yes, your kids and family are your priority, but your sanity is at stake here. You are not their property! It is time to take a stand and put some FUN into your strictly functional life.

Mostly B's
While you are aware of your own worth, you still play the guilt game and give up a little too much of your free time. Your children and spouse will be better off if you invest a little more in yourself and a little less in being everyone's facilitator.

Mostly C's
Stella ain't got nothing on you, girlfriend! Your stretchmarks say you have earned the right to enjoy your free time, guilt free! You still buy the toilet paper at Wal-Mart, but you look damned good doing it! Groove on!