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'Tis the Season for a Stress-free Holiday

10 Parenting Tips That Will Bring Back the Joy and Peace

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10. For divorced parents, call a truce during the holidays.
For everyone's sake, but especially for the kids, keep things friendly and light. Overlook the problems and forget the complaints for the space of the holidays, and be thankful you've got the family you have. "Divorced parents should put the 'give' in forgiving this holiday season," Bentz says. "You don't want your kids to look back on holidays past and remember times of fighting and unhappiness. You're adults, so act like it. You want your children to have the best holiday possible."

The holidays shouldn't be a time of the year that you feel you must "endure" or "survive." If you learn to manage all of the elements, you can have an enjoyable and stress-free season. It's all about finding the right balance of activities for your children. And above all, Bentz says, remember the less-is-more principle.

"The holidays will be more cheerful for everyone involved if you don't overdo it," she says. "Simply minimizing the activities you participate in will allow everyone – kids and adults alike – to enjoy this time of year. Holidays are about celebrating, after all, and that means having fun. If it's not fun, if it doesn't inspire joy, don't do it. It's a simple principle, but it's one that will change everything."


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