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By the Book
Get Your Child Reading This Summer
By Heather V. Long
"There are so many benefits of reading together, but I think the greatest is the connection that comes from the shared interest and seeing that connection change and grow through the years," says Haapoja. "I'm thrilled when my 5-year-old wants me to read him a story, when my 8-year-old shares her excitement at finishing a chapter book and when my teenagers say, 'Mom, you've got to read this book! It's great!' We may be going in five different directions most of the time, but our shared love of reading keeps us all connected in a very important way."
"Our kids enjoy mysteries. They seem to prefer series to individual books because they get to know the characters and the settings," says Tim Bete of Beavercreek, Ohio, author of the Where I Live column. "I allow them to pick books within the series, and we always read just before bed and sometimes during the day, especially when it's raining. Reading with your children always opens up discussions. We talk about the books, what the characters did and why they did it. Reading provides opportunities for me to comment on the good and bad behavior of the characters, and it also provides an opportunity for my kids to say what they might have done in a similar situation."
In the end, the benefits of a literary bond between parent and child are endless. This is a bond that matures with the child as the parent progresses from reading to them, with them and finally, just reading by them and sharing favorite titles and authors. "One of the things that parents need to do is to not get discouraged," says Maxson. "Their children will like some books and not like others. Constantly offer new things. And it's up to us, the parents, to find those new things and utilize this positive parenting tool."
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