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Sporty Kids
Making a Game Plan
By Lisa Marie Metzler
He also believes parental involvement is key. "Don't overdo it and play the game through the child," Moss warns. Winning is not the end result; promoting teamwork and self-improvement should be the goal. "Support the coach and if you have a difference of opinion, talk to the coach in private, not in front of the child. One of the worst things you can do is to interfere and teach your child differently than what the coach has taught them. The child will be mixed up at the game and not have any fun."
Psychological Stats
Although many previous studies have indicated that children who are involved in sports maintain a better grade point average, stay out of trouble and generally have higher self-esteem, that isn't always the case. A recent study conducted by Assistant Professor Matthew Taylor of the University of Wisconsin at LaCrosse found that in some cases, sports are being linked to drug abuse and aggression in older youths. However, the study's author cautions that other variables – like school setting, coaching styles and parental involvement – also played a role. Final Score
Let your child take the lead and follow them. Sports should always be an enjoyable and positive experience. Your child will be watching your attitude. If you are having fun and not taking the game too seriously, your child will take that cue from you. Praise your children and give them positive encouragement when they make mistakes. Stay calm and remember: It's just a game. The real victory is the desirable characteristics that will develop and benefit other areas of your children's lives as they grow and mature into adulthood.