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Expert Q&A
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| By Chris Crutcher Author, Licensed Child and Family Therapist | ||
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My daughters fight constantly. They play together nicely for about 15 minutes, and then they turn on each other with nitpicking, name-calling and being downright mean. How can I restore harmony to the home, or am I expecting too much?
You're probably expecting too much. You're probably running into developmental problems, just with where each of your kids is at any given time. Kids have periods of equilibrium and disequilibrium and when they conflict, you get conflict. I'd let them work most of them out themselves, and you will probably have to separate them routinely until they learn to tolerate each other.
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