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Expert Q&A
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I want to get to know my daughter's teacher, but I'm not sure how involved I should try to be. I know the teacher is busy and can't spend a lot of time with parents, but should I go beyond the regular parent-teacher conferences and try to meet with her more often?
It's wonderful and important to get to know your child's teacher. You should, however, remember to keep it on a professional level. Meet with your child's teacher at conference time and if you feel you need more time to discuss your child, by all means, set up another meeting.
Keep your meetings focused on your child. Sometimes it gets uncomfortable for you or the teacher when the relationship becomes more personal. A teacher usually -- and hopefully -- gives her all to her students, but enjoys her private time as well.
It is most appropriate to call the teacher at school. If she gives you her home number, save it for emergency concerns that cannot wait until the next day. If there is something that concerns you before conferences, call her and set up a meeting. Try not to discuss these concerns at events such as Open House where many parents are present. You want your teacher to have all your attention and to be thinking about your child.
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